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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Judge does good for gay rights, stops DADT








  As many of my readers know, I've been following the DADT (Don't Ask, Don't Tell) issue in the United States with great interest.  I'm a strong supporter of gay rights, and transexual rights.  Many brave men and women have been wrongfully dismissed from the American military due to this policy.

  Lady Gaga and the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network have done much to bring attention to this matter.  Here's some of the coverage I've done so far:





  Well, there was some excellent news yesterday.  It turns out a judge could do what President Obama, Lady Gaga, and the SLDN couldn't.  Or perhaps, Lady Gaga and the SLDN's activism helped convince the judge?  Either way, a judge has decided that DADT is unconstitutional and shouldn't be enforced.  Right-wingers in both the US and Canada often talk shit about 'activist judges', but the truth is, a lot of the best laws and policies come from a fair court ruling.  At the tender age of 26, I've already been harmed by a court ruling about me, but I still know that courts often do a lot of good.  One such ruling recently happened in my great nation of Canada.  Ontario (my province) courts decided to repeal most of Canada's anti-prostitution laws.  Of course, our 'Bush-light' Prime Minister Stephen Harper is appealing the decision, but I think the rights of sex workers will prevail in the end.  See my article about that here: The Best Little Whorehouse in Toronto.

  Anyway, back to yesterday's anti-DADT ruling.  From Gawker:

The federal judge who deemed "don't ask don't tell" unconstitutionalruled today that the military "immediately suspend and discontinue any investigation, discharge, [or] separation" of gay soldiers. See, it took just one judge to do whatObama couldn't.


  From the Servicemember's Legal Defense Network:


 Statement by SLDN Legal Director Aaron Tax:


“We applaud Judge Phillips for putting an immediate stop to all investigations and discharges under this unconstitutional law. As explained by the judge, this order applies across the military. This order bars the Department of Defense from enforcing or applying the ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ law against any person under its command. We have clients under investigation and facing discharge right now. We’ll be monitoring each case over the coming days. This order will likely be appealed by the Justice Department and brought to the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 9th Circuit where her decision may well be reversed. The law still has a chance of being repealed in the lame duck session of Congress. Service members must proceed safely and should not come out at this time. Anyone in the armed forces with questions or concerns should call our hotline.”


  From Associated Press:


 SAN DIEGO (AP) — A federal judge issued a worldwide injunction Tuesday immediately stopping enforcement of the military's "don't ask, don't tell" policy, suspending the 17-year-old ban on openly gay U.S. troops.
 U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips' landmark ruling also ordered the government to suspend and discontinue all pending discharge proceedings and investigations under the policy.


U.S. Department of Justice attorneys have 60 days to appeal. Pentagon and Department of Justice officials said they are reviewing the case and had no immediate comment.

The injunction goes into effect immediately, said Dan Woods, the attorney who represented the Log Cabin Republicans, the gay rights group that filed the lawsuit in 2004 to stop the ban's enforcement.

"Don't ask, don't tell, as of today at least, is done, and the government is going to have to do something now to resurrect it," Woods said. "This is an extremely significant, historic decision. Once and for all, this failed policy is stopped. Fortunately now we hope all Americans who wish to serve their country can."

Legal experts say the Obama administration is under no legal obligation to appeal and could let Phillips' ruling stand.


Phillips' decision was widely cheered by gay rights organizations that credited her with getting accomplished what President Obama and Washington politics could not.


"This order from Judge Phillips is another historic and courageous step in the right direction, a step that Congress has been noticeably slow in taking," said Alexander Nicholson, executive director of Servicemembers United, the nation's largest organization of gay and lesbian troops and veterans.


  Let's hope that, as with Canada's prostitution ruling, the appeal of this decision fails.


  In the Canadian military, I'm sure there are plenty of homophobes and transphobes.  But, if anyone in the military was caught behaving homophobicly  or transphobicly, the bigot would be reprimanded, at the very least.


  Gay soldiers and gay marriage are both legal here.  Our neighbor to the south is now playing catch up.


  Now, onto another issue that has garnered a lot of interest, the Chilean miner rescue.


  Those guys in Chile have been through a living hell.  It's remarkable how they've survived for 69 days.  As of this writing, they are being rescued.


  From Gawker:



The BBC is live-streaming video from the site of the rescue operations—and apparently, the Chilean embassy in Washington, D.C. is broadcasting the rescue on screens set up outside. Here's the order of they'll come up in:
Florencio Avalos, Mario Sepulveda, Juan Illanes, Carlos Mamani, Jimmy Sanchez, Osman Araya, Jose Ojeda, Claudio Yanez, Mario Gomez, Alex Vega, Jorge Galleguillos, Edison Pena, Carlos Barrios, Victor Zamora, Víctor Segovia, Daniel Herrera, Omar Reygadas, Esteban Rojas, Pablo Rojas, Dario Segovia, Yonni Barrios, Samuel Avalos, Carlos Bugueno, Jose Henriquez, Renan Avalos, Claudio Acuna, Franklin Lobos, Richard Villarroel, Juan Aguilar, Raul Bustos, Pedro Cortez, Ariel Ticona, Luis Urzua.


   From Associated Press:


  SAN JOSE MINE, Chile — One by one, the miners trapped for 69 days in a dungeon that could have been their tomb climbed into a rescue capsule and made a smooth ascent to the surface Wednesday, greeted by the embraces of loved ones, cheered by joyous Chileans and watched by a captivated world.


 The anxiety that had accompanied the careful final days of preparation broke at 12:11 a.m., when the stoutest of the men, Florencio Avalos, emerged from the missile-like chamber and smiled broadly after his half-mile journey to fresh air.


 By late morning, 14 men had been pulled from the mine in roughly 11 hours, including the oldest and youngest among the trapped. The effort was methodical and free of any significant problems, and on track to finish before sunrise Thursday.


  Amid an explosion of cheers, Avalos hugged his sobbing 7-year-old son and wife and then President Sebastian Pinera, who has been deeply involved in an effort that had become a matter of national pride.


 Avalos was followed an hour later by the most ebullient of the group, Mario Sepulveda, whose shouts were heard even before the capsule peeked above the surface. He hugged his wife, handed out souvenir rocks from the mine to laughing rescuers, bounded out and thrust a fist upward like a prizefighter.


 "I think I had extraordinary luck. I was with God and with the devil. And I reached out for God," Sepulveda said as he awaited the air force helicopter ride to a nearby hospital where all the miners were to spend 48 hours under medical observation.


 No one in recorded history has survived as long trapped underground as the 33 men. For the first 17 days after 700,000 tons of rock collapsed around them Aug. 5, no one even knew whether they were alive. In the weeks that followed, the world was transfixed by their endurance and unity.


 What an amazing story of human survival!


  Now, some news about me.  My first article for Blogcritics is now online.  It has been retweeted 29 times since it went up about ten hours ago.  Incredible!  See http://blogcritics.org/scitech/article/how-to-become-a-web-designer/.


  As I've said previously, I have three reviews on their way for Blogcritics, one for a book, one for a video game, and one for a DVD that kids will salivate over.   That's a lot of reading, playing, and watching for me to do!  You can look forward to them in the next couple of weeks.


  I've also made contact with a fascinating and notable person I'd love to interview for Blogcritics.  That's still up in the air, so I won't say any more about that for now.


  I may do another article or two for Blogcritics, in the meantime.  Bookmark my profile on Blogcritics: http://blogcritics.org/writers/kim-crawley/ to keep on top of all the exciting content that'll be published soon.


  As for this blog, I'll be continuing my A Brief History of the Web series with part three, either Thursday evening or Friday morning.  I'll keep this blog updated as frequently as I have been, so make sure to return here often, in addition to Blogcritics.


  To all my readers, I thank you for my recent success!









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Thursday, October 7, 2010

It's up to all of us to stop bullying!











  I'm willing to guarantee that pretty much everyone over the age of ten has either witnessed bullying, been bullied, or has bullied others.  So the subject of this post concerns everyone, children and adults alike.


  Bullying is an especially hot topic these days, because news has been made of a few teens who have committed suicide due to bullying of a homophobic nature.


  Eighteen year old Tyler Clementi was a talented violin player and a student at Rutgers University.  After his roommate Dharun Ravi videostreamed Tyler online while he was being intimate with another man, Tyler was in tremendous despair.  On September 22nd, Tyler jumped off the George Washington Bridge, to his death.


  Thirteen year old Asher Brown was harassed about his religion and sexual orientation by his classmates.  On September 23rd, Asher shot himself with his stepfather's gun.


  Seth Walsh was only eleven years old.  He was also harassed about his perceived sexual orientation by his classmates.  He was found unconscious in his own backyard, another apparent suicide.  He died after ten days on life support.


  Fifteen year old Billy Lucas received homophobic harassment by the other kids at school.  Billy hung himself on September 9th.


  Fifteen year old Justin Aaberg was a talented cello player who came out of the closet at age thirteen.  He also hung himself.


  Nineteen  year old Raymond Chase attended Johnson & Wales University.  He was openly gay, and he hung himself in his dorm room last week.


  See http://www.gaylesbiantimes.com/?id=17469.


  These homophobia related suicides touched Ellen DeGeneres' heart, and she candidly spoke about them on her talk show on September 30th.









I was also violently bullied as a child. I'm heterosexual, and no one ever thought I was gay, but people who know about bullying know that bullies target people who are different, period. I was bullied for my eccentricity and awkward social skills. I wasn't diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome until I was nineteen, and years of bullying and enduring a public school system that couldn't understand me made me drop out as soon as it was legal, at age sixteen.


There were certainly times I felt like committing suicide, much like those teenagers mentioned in my post who committed suicide due to homophobia.


My experience with bullying started when I was nine years old, in Grade Four at Munden Park Public School, in Mississauga, Ontario, Canada. Teachers and lunchtime supervisors would tell me, "Just ignore them, Kim, they're only teasing!" From age nine, until I dropped out at age sixteen while attending Meadowvale Secondary in Mississauga, I was constantly bullied in various ways.


I was constantly insulted. I was ostracized by all the other kids in my class, ALL of them. I was kicked. I was punched. I had my possessions stolen and vandalized.


The teachers, supervisors, and school administration always ignored the issue. "Kids will be kids!" Arrrgghh! That attitude makes me so angry.


Like gay kids, or kids who are suspected of being gay, autistic kids, whether diagnosed or undiagnosed are also subject to bullying a lot more than other kids.


From Michael McGrath's article, Aspergers Syndrome and Bullying, http://www.suite101.com/content/aspergers-syndrome-and-bullying-a66366:



Children with Asperger’s syndrome are ideal targets for bullying. Asperger’s children tend to be socially isolated and awkward in conversations and physical coordination. An Aspie child often has interests that other children consider odd, or may have unusual verbal or physical habits. Most rewarding, from a bully’s perspective, is how easily many Asperger’s children “meltdown” and lose control when under pressure.
Approximately 90 percent of Asperger’s children are bullied – some sources suggest the number is closer to 100 percent. Adults with Asperger’s syndrome often relate how helpless, angry and alone schoolyard bullying made them feel, and how the effects of bullying followed them into their adult lives.


Parents and teachers should make it quite clear that there is never a good reason to bully, and that the correct and safest thing to do is to tell an adult the child trusts – whether a parent, teacher or counselor. The traditional belief that ignoring bullying makes bullies stop is simply not true. Many schools now have no tolerance policies for bullying, but those policies can only be enforced if teachers and school staff know bullying is occurring.
 In my experience, though, schools don't take bullying seriously at all.  It's a crying shame.


 And, not only kids are bullied.  Adults are often subject to bullying as well.


 From http://www.canadianliving.com/relationships/friends_and_family/adult_bullying_how_you_can_fight_back.php:


Adult bullying takes place at the park, in parent committees and kids’ sporting events; among people in volunteer and peer groups; and even in families. Examples of outright physical bullying among adults include Stewart Ferguson of Pakenham, Ont., near Ottawa, who was sentenced in 2005 to 18 months probation for shoving a referee into a door frame after his son was thrown out of a minor league hockey game. But more often adult bullying is emotional. 
 The Canada Safety Council defines adult bullying as a “grab for control by an insecure, inadequate person, an exercise of power through the humiliation of the target.” It involves humiliation or abusive words that lower a person’s self-esteem. It can take the form of rude, degrading or offensive remarks; intimidating gestures; or discrediting a person by spreading rumours, ridiculing her or calling into question her convictions and private life. It can also be about belittling a person by making her do tasks below her skill level. 



According to the International Labour Organization, physical and emotional violence is one of the most serious issues facing the workplace today because the psychological wounds can run deep. The Commission des normes du travail, which enforces labour standards in Quebec, has conducted surveys that show up to one in 10 workers in that province have been the subject of harmful bullying, intimidation or belittlement by a boss or coworker. 


  There is a solution to combating bullying.  And all of us must take part in order for the campaign to be effective.




  • Schools, for young children and adults alike, must have strong and detailed anti-bullying policies.  And they must be enforced by all authority figures.  Adult workplaces need the same.
  • If you observe bullying, and you did nothing about it, you are not an innocent bystander.  You are a guilty party, as well.  I can't count how many times I was viciously bullied while other kids just watched and did nothing.  The same applies to adult bullying, too.  If you witness bullying, tell the bully to stop!  Or, at the very least, tell an authority figure about it.  The bully may possibly be breaking the law as well, so teen and adult bullies may be charged with a crime by the police.  In those situations, make sure the police are involved.


 Ellen DeGeneres has recently popularized the use of the #StopBullying hashtag on Twitter.  I posted a few #StopBullying tweets last night, and I got a quick response from musicismylifee1.



 Thanks, musicismylifee1 and idkmybffjenn for bringing this wonderful blog to my attention.  Here's the link for everyone: http://www.stopbullyingnoww.blogspot.com/.  It's an inspirational story, Pursuing Happiness.  You've got to check it out.


  What it all boils down to is this: it's up to all of us to stop bullying!

  Some more related links:





On a more positive note, there's plenty to look forward to on this blog and kimcrawley.com...

Kimcrawley.com and buchalterconsulting.ca will be upgraded to HTML5 and CSS3 by 2pm EST, tomorrow, October 8th.  See Getting ready for HTML5- no more delays!

  And...



  This Saturday, October 9th, John Lennon would have been celebrating his 70th birthday.  Tomorrow, October 8th, you can look forward to my new post: Remembering John Lennon, An Objective View.


  This weekend of October 9th and 10th, I've got a real treat for computer nerds and newbies alike.  I'll be debuting my A Brief History of The Web series, which promises to be fun and informative.  Surely you wonder how the web started, and how we got to the web we have today?


  On Monday, October 11th, possibly in the evening, I'll start the conclusion to my Project HTML5 series.  The last two articles will be about CSS3.













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Monday, October 4, 2010

A 'Shout-Out' for TransGriot










  While web surfing about LGBT issues yesterday, I found this fabulous blog, TransGriot.  It's written by this beautiful lady, Monica Roberts.


  Her blog has already taught me a few things, such as:





 I just think it's amazing that there's a black transwoman who's speaking out about issues that matter.  When transpeople are presented in the media, they're usually white, so I wish all the power to her for breaking stereotypes.  Her blog is very popular, it's received over a million hits.

  I care very deeply about LGBT matters because there are a number of LGBT people in my life who I love.  Transsexual rights really resonate with me because my brother-in-law, on the paternal side of my family, is a transman, and through my (bi) sister, I have an excellent idea of what he's gone through in his life.

 Way to go, Monica!

 Visit TransGriot.

 My previous coverage of LGBT issues:





 A previous 'Shout-Out':













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Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Bad news about DADT



Well, despite Lady Gaga and the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network's triumphant show against DADT, senate Republicans took voting on DADT off of the defense bill.


 From the L.A. Times:



A Republican-led filibuster on Tuesday blocked efforts to repeal the "don't ask, don't tell" policy on gays in the military, shelving anObama administration priority at least until after the November election.
The measure repealing the military policy banning gays from serving openly was part of the 2011 Defense authorization bill. Democrats tried to bring the bill up for consideration but failed to get the 60 votes necessary to overcome determined GOP-led opposition. Supporters voted 56-43 in favor of starting debate on the Defense bill, short of the 60 needed.

From Kevin Naff at the Washington Blade:

In yet another indication that the GOP is happy to be the party of old, southern, straight, white men, Senate Republicans today banded together — joined by Arkansas Democrats — to derail repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”
Although President Obama isn’t blameless in this debacle — the White House was MIA throughout the repeal process — the blame for today’s disappointing setback lies squarely with Republicans who are determined to obstruct everything they can, while biding time until the mid-term elections.
They have seriously miscalculated on this one. The American public overwhelmingly favors repeal, by as much as 80 percent in recent polls. Yet, this Congress failed to advance the defense authorization bill that contains repeal language. It’s a stunning outcome and one that young voters in particular won’t forget.
Arkansas Democratic Sens. Blanche Lincoln and Mark Pryor must be held accountable for their votes, too. But where are the voices of the so-called moderate Republicans? Some of the most prominent Republicans, along with military leaders and one federal judge, have said “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” constitutes unconstitutional discrimination. Yet not one of them had the courage to stand up to their party and do the right thing to end this odious law.
To make matters worse, the nation’s two gay conservative groups, GOProud and Log Cabin Republicans, released mindboggling statements pinning the blame on Sen. Harry Reid for allegedly failing to compromise.
“Sen. Reid failed to reach a compromise with Republicans and our military service members will need to wait until the November elections are over for the U.S. Senate to vote on a repeal,” said R. Clarke Cooper, Log Cabin’s executive director.  “This partisan arrogance is an example of why voters will be turning away from Democrats on Nov. 2.”
Well, let’s hope voters don’t turn to these Republicans for help in ending discrimination.
Not to be outdone, GOProud, which is becoming quite adept at bomb throwing, released a statement accusing Reid of killing “Don’t Ask” repeal.
“The defeat of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ repeal lies solely with Harry Reid and the Democrat leadership. Harry Reid is playing political games with the lives of the brave gay men and women serving in our military. It’s clear now that Lady Gaga should have held her Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell repeal rally in Nevada instead of Maine.”
This is delusional. Putting aside the deliberately obnoxious practice of referring to the Democratic Party as the “Democrat Party,” this statement fails to address the Republicans’ unwillingness to advance anything on the president’s agenda. And ridiculing Lady Gaga, who has 7 million Twitter followers awaiting her every instruction, is naïve and further evidence that Republicans are woefully out of touch with young voters.
It will be those voters who will deliver the GOP its comeuppance. It won’t happen in November. And it might not happen in 2012. But the next generation is watching — and they’re pissed at John McCain and the rest of his merry band of dinosaurs playing games with the livelihoods of thousands of brave gay and lesbian service members.


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Well, it ain't over 'til the fat lady sings.  Americans can still band together to fight DADT.  I'm Canadian, but to Americans everywhere, I urge you to call and e-mail your local senators about this crucial issue.

Gay rights are HUMAN rights.

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